Tuesday, October 29, 2013

The Beers He Drank


There is no secret I love beer. Have since the age of 14, we start early in the Maritimes. While we all certainly enjoyed the fine selection of regional wines with our dinners each night, beer seemed to be the refreshment of choice with most pilgrims, either part way through the days long walk or upon arrival at your albergue  mid afternoon in the 90 degree heat of the day. One of the many fine parts of the journey.

From the Toronto airport on the 30 August, to our return on the 5 Oct, I wrote down the name of every type of beer I enjoyed, in the order that the glasses hit my lips. Quite impressive selection available. No comment on the total number.



Rickards Red
Kronenburg 
Affligem
EQI
Heineken
Mahou Classica
Amstel Oro
Amstel


San Miguel Especial
Fink BRAU
Ambar Especial
Paulander-Weibrier (wheat beer, the only one I didn't like)
Adlerbrau
Cryzcampo
Estrella Damm




Estrella Especial
EMD Brau
Kronenburg 1906
Fosters
Folers Hardliner
London Pride






Monday, October 28, 2013

So Long Santiago

Wed 3 October 2013      Santiago de Compostella to London England



Well that was it, she was all over. The idea that had germinated with The Way over a year and a half ago was done. The whole thing was almost surreal, and seemed to take forever and no time at all. While we were walking, from day one, there was really no thought process of whats next, or how long it had been since we started, there was just the moment. That mindset changed as I first opened my eyes that morning in Santiago de Compostella. Immediately there was a ta do list, back on a schedule. Say goodbye to  Nick and Judy, see if we could connect with the Freddy girls before we left, pick up a few articles of clothing to replace the Camino clothes we turfed, get a taxi to the airport in time for our 3:15 flight.

There were two hectic hours: a bitter sweet breakfast and goodbye with our two new dear friends Nick and Judy, with a vow that we would not let this friendship fade away; a lucky find of the Freddy girls at a small Deli not to far from the hotel; then a quick shopping spree for souvenirs for Mary Lou's employees and a few people who nudged me out the door and were my biggest supporters. Then at 12:00 noon the taxi arrived right on time and dropped us off at the Santiago airport. 

Unfortunately, it was the wrong airport. My fast Spanish talking cab driver was so busy filling me in on so many things that I didn't have a clue what he was talking about, that he did not listen to where were going, and voila, right airline, wrong airport. The good news was we had allowed lots of time before the flight, and the Coruna airport was only a forty five minute and $ 80 cab ride away, in the opposite direction. Yep, back in the real world again. Leuwing Airlines provided us with a direct flight to London, at a great price, on time service and was only lacking legroom, and by lacking legroom I mean anyone over five feet tall could not get their knees behind the seat in front of them. Yep, great to be back in the real world again. Made those shoulder wide bunks on the Camino seem all of a sudden, roomy.

OK enough whining. Everything was made good after our hour long subway drive the moment I saw our  boy Jeff, and Granddog Jack, strolling along to meet us at the station. My other daughter Jenny would soon join us and we would settle into a couple of enjoyable days with two of the four members of my family. And all was good. 

I cannot begin to, OK thats not true I have begun the process, understand just how spectacular this journey was; what was learned, what was reaffirmed. It was magical, no doubt about it, whether it was real or just a whimsy of the mind will be determined, but so much out of the ordinary happened that cracks were appearing in the mind of a man of science. The people we met will be friends for life, even the ones we will never see again. I will walk the Camino again, though not before exploring the multitude of other opportunities this world has to offer. I hope to continue with many of the practices of the Camino: quickly turning strangers into friends, approaching everything with an open mind; looking back at where I have been all the while moving forward; and on and on. Most importantly, I have some insight into the next phase of my life, whats to be done, though I likely won't share it at this point.

There is still much to post on the blog. Special pictures, some lessons learned, a few stories that didn't make the first round, living in the moment, some irreverent facts on our walk and even some tips for future pilgrims. Stay tuned.





Wednesday, October 23, 2013

The End of Conformity



I know all the rules, but the rules did not know me
Guaranteed.

Eddie Vedder


                              Wed 2 Oct  O Pedrouzo o Santiago de Compostella      20 km


So here it was, the day we had all been looking forward to for almost five weeks was upon us. And it started with a mixture of excitement and sadness. One final day of walking, only 20 km to go, and I still did not have a clue as to the real reason I had come on this journey. It reminded me a bit of Christmas as a kid, where the anticipation of opening those presents was at times almost unbearable, followed by the inevitable let down after the frenzy was over and everyone went back to their daily routine. So it goes on the Camino.

In five or six hours we would walk down the hill that leads into Santiago de Compostella. All the blisters and cuts and bruises wouldn’t matter any more, no more routine of the day on the trail, it would all end at the cathedral and we would walk away with our Compostellas. And that would be it. So how does one adjust to life as normal: no more freedom of the road; no more extended periods of quality reflecting time to think of nothing but the things you wanted to, or needed to; no more making new friends on a daily basis or seeing these people that had become a big part of your life in such a short time. It is going to be tough to get our heads around this.


The plan for the day was a simple one. We would gather outside the albergue at 5:00 am and the Valvo’s, Dooley Heath’s and Smith’s would head out, walk the last 20 km and enter the City of Santiago de Compostella together. The early start was to allow plenty of time to make the 12 noon mass at the Cathedral de Santiago. Seven hours should be plenty of time we thought, what could possibly go wrong? So at 5:15 we were all out the door and hit the road. Down 15 minutes.

The cold or flu or whatever it was that had started to show its head yesterday, hit full storm as I knew it would, taking the edge of what should have been an exciting start. With very little energy, and no morning coffee in me, the rest of the group quickly moved ahead, and I was struggling to keep up. The walk started  on municipal streets with a sharp uphill climb  as was often the case. The first three hours and more would be in the dark as sunrise was around 8:30. Nick and I had replaced the batteries last night in our headlamps, and Tom had purchased six flashlights and batteries so each of the family had their own. Will and Penny who had stayed in the previous town, "don't do early",  so they would meet us in Santiago.

By the time we found a place for breakfast it was the village of Lavacolla almost two and a half hours out . Unfortunately for me the cold was taking its toll, and I was having difficulty both staying awake and walking. Knowing we were pressed for time I told the others  I was heading out while they were finishing breakfast, figuring it wouldn't be long before catching me at my slow pace. The route from this point was almost entirely on or along the roadways, and the more steps I took, the better I started feeling, to the point where I hit my usual walking stride. After about an hour of walking none of the group had yet caught me, so I settled down for a a cafe con leche at a small little bar located exactly nine km from the cathedral in Santiago. It was pretty near half an hour later before the first one , Rosa, came strolling by. Over the next ten minutes the rest of the Dooley Heath's arrived, but there was no sign of Judy, Mary Lou or Nick, which was strange as they had left before the rest of them. After a few harried minutes trying to figure out what had happened Judy came around the corner. Apparently they had made a wrong turn shortly after leaving from breakfast and actually ended up heading back towards the previous village. Another hour lost.

So on we all pressed, making good time , in an effort to arrive for the noon hour mass. For Mary Lou and I it would be our only opportunity to see this as we would be on our way to the airport for London by that time tomorrow. The others would have another day or two. Much to my surprise, it was an incredibly emotional experience as we walked over the crest and had our first look at the city of Santiago de Compostella. Two thoughts struck me. First, I knew I would walk this again.  The second was best described by a line in Chris De Burg's ballad " Crusader" that says " and then the crusaders came over the mountain and they saw Jerusalem, they fell to their knees...". Oddly enough, this is exactly the way it felt to me. If the sight of this very holy Christian place could evoke such a powerful emotion in someone who doubted, it must be incredible for True believers. This journey has shown me over and over again the reason people have faith in a higher power,  and why religion has endured over the millennia. It is not for me, and I am not sure it ever will be, but I was now able to understand and respect why it is for so many others.

Once you reach the outskirts of the city, there is still a 4 km walk through the streets to get to the cathedral. With one hour to go that meant there was no time to spare and we soldiered on without a much needed respite. The city had a similar feel to the other large ones we had visited, such as Leon and Burgos, although the closer we got to the cathedral the older the buildings became. Guess that made sense. And at 11:50 ML and I arrived at the Cathedral de Santiago, proceeding directly in to find a place to watch the ceremony, while others would arrive over the next ten minutes. ML wanted to get as close as possible to the action so she  headed for the pews, while I found a great spot to sit on the stairs at the perimeter. We had heard a nun came out half hour before the service to instruct pilgrims on how and when to respond to the priest during the ceremony, and sure enough, there she was. It all looked very comical to me but most of the congregation was paying close attention and gave her due respect and attention.

Sitting on the edge of the church gave me an unrestricted view of the inside, and it struck me that the cathedrals in both Burgos and Leon were much more spectacular than this one. The Cathedral de Santiago seemed a little darker and dirtier, less ornate and smaller on the inside. Maybe yes, maybe no, but I was somewhat less impressed than with the others. However, this one had the big swinging Botafumero which was featured in a key scene in The Way. That in fact is what I came to see. This pot that gets filled with coal and incense is one of the largest "censers" in the world. It is made of brass and  bronze with a gold sheen, is swung on the end of a rope moved by a pulley system, and reaches heights of up to 21 m. It is not used in every ceremony, but we found out that it would be at the end of todays mass. Ten minutes into the ceremony I had had enough and quietly grabbed my backpack and headed out to the Pilgrims Office to get my compostella, figuring that there would be no lineups while all the other pilgrims were in church. Well I was right, got my Compostella in less than five minutes, and was back at mass in time to see the Botafumero in action. It was very impressive.

After the ceremony the rest of the crew headed out to get their compostellas. I was waiting for them outside when  I had this feeling that Will would be in the square in front of the Cathedral. He was aware that we had some dinner plans for the group that night, but did not know when, and Mary Lou  and Judy would have been crushed if he did not make it. So off I headed to the square and sure enough, there was Will and Penny. They had checked into the same albergue that the Freddy girls had, and he would touch base with them and let them know that the group was meeting at 7:00 PM to find a place for the last supper. Mary Lou, Nick, Judy and I headed out to check into the hotel and get some much needed sleep.

At 7 on cue the gathering began. As expected the group had grown substantially as our Camino family brought in people from their Camino family, who brought people from their Camino family and so on. In the end there would be roughly 40 people, some who I did not know, but most were people we had grown close to on this walk. After a quick phone call we located a restaurant that could handle the group on short notice. We lost a few people in the walk up the hill, in particular the Australian lady who shattered her leg, as they could not navigate the stairs. In the end, it was a fantastic dinner with family, full of good food , beer , wine, poetry and song. I sat beside my friend Martin from Ireland, and told him about my change of heart on walking this again. He said to me " Mitch, when I finished this walk last year I swore never again. But then I got home and couldn't stop thinking about it, and here I am. This place will get into your head." It already had.

As I  looked around the tables at this eclectic group of individuals, none of whom I had know five weeks ago, it dawned on me how this should be a metaphor for the way we live our lives. There were people of all sizes and shapes and ages, with different personalities and beliefs, from different countries and walks of life, completely at ease with each other, accepted for exactly who they were, in fact because of exactly who they were. Back in the real world most people spend their life trying to conform, and quite often in striving to be the same, push themselves further away from those of whom they are looking for approval. But this Camino family shows in fact the best way to be accepted, is to be yourself.  On the walk this morning Nick related a conversation he had with Tom. Nick wanted to know what Tom had learned on this journey. His answer was astounding:

" I have learned that people walk at their own pace, and the best way to honour their pace, is to walk at your own pace" 

Tom Dooley Heath   age 11




Monday, October 21, 2013

Pics Wed Oct 2 Part 2



    Hitting the City limits.


    Santiago de Compostella.


    Almost to the church.


    The Cathedral de Santiago.


    Inside the Cathedral de Santiago, built on the grave of the man himself.


    The big swinging smoke pot or botafumerio. Tradition started to mask the stink from pilgrims.


    The Pilgrims office where the Compostellas are issued.


    Compostellas in hand.


    Gathering at the square.


    Bev and Lynne girls getting the sales pitch.


    Our Camino family part 1. 


    Camino family table 2.


    More of our Camino family including three of the Freddy girls.

Change The World

Tuesday 1 October  Ribadiso to O Pedrouzo    22.1 km

Six thirty comes very quickly the morning after a good party, and a good party we had indeed the night before. There were a few tired members of our little troop of 10,  housed in the same room which slept 12 people. The hostel is in a renovated building that dates back to the 14th century. There were known snorers in the group, yes I was one of them, and the night before we discussed strategy on how they could keep us in check. For me, it is usually Mary Lou in the bunk below banging on the frame to wake me up, but Maya was given clear reign to shake me if necessary. I went to sleep to the sound of the two other snorers, but apparently neither one of them ended up being the problem.  Maya would  inform me during our walk today that all attempts to quiet the snoring were in vain. She did not wish to share the same room any more, which of course was the determination both of my kids came to years ago.

By 7 am we were all up and out for a cafe and croissant at the nearby bar. The day started out in a light rain, and all were donned in full wet gear, though shortly after our 7:30 start it had dissipated and the sun came out in full force. The first part of the walk is direct up a rather steep hill crossing under the main highway via tunnel, leading into the large town of Arzua (formerly called Villanova), population 7000. As we already had the morning cafe we rolled straight on through what would have been a neat little spot to spend the night.  One amusing sight was a man carrying his backpack on a jerry rigged wheelbarrow. He carried it using two handles and a set of straps that went over his shoulders to take a bit of the load. To me it looked like it would be difficult to get up and down the hills but in the brief discussion we had, he assured me that it was not the case and gave a little demonstration on how he manoeuvred it about. To each his own I guess.

Outside of the steep start and finish to the day, the route was for the most part flat, running through tunnels of eucalyptus trees, and some sections adjacent to the roadway. Though there was a distinct smell to the woods particularly after a rain, it did not remind me of the the scent of eucalyptus one encounters in a sauna. The trees do however grow quite tall and provide great shelter from the elements, be it wind, rain or sun.

Over the past few weeks I had several discussions with Toms parents about their son, and at times giving me a heavy heart because of the issues he has with kids in his age group as result of being so far ahead of his peers intellectually. It was uplifting watching this boy, who had become my friend, feel so at home on the Camino with people of all ages. Kids can be cruel, you know that when you get older, but it is difficult to understand when you are young, and I wanted to find some words to give Tom comfort. So I said " come talk with me for a bit Tom". I wanted to tell him that the kids tease him because they are unsure of themselves, that the kids who were the cool kids in the younger years aren't usually the ones who get the furthest, that he would understand as he got a little older, but it didn't feel right. So I spoke from the heart and told him " Tom, you are going to change this world. I don't know how, but I feel it in my gut that you will make a difference, and my gut is never wrong. Don't let others limitations hold you back". We continued on down the trail enjoying each others company for a while.

After a bit I started off on my own for the obligatory daily alone time, a chance to do some serious thinking and reflecting. It wasn't long after that something started nagging at me, a feeling that had not existed the previous 31 days. All along I had told myself, and anyone who asked, that this has been a fantastic journey, a once in a lifetime journey, I  
would not return. But here I was out of the blue thinking much to my horror that I will be back, I will walk this again. " Get out of my head" I screamed" I am not coming back here." Maybe it was because there was only one more day to go, then back to the real world, but there it was. And to pile it on , I could feel the rumblings of a cold coming on, and based on experience it was going to be a doozy. Hopefully it could hold off until the walk was finished.  Thirty one days of perfect health...OK except for the blisters, constipation, groin injury, strained calf muscle, etc...but one day before the finish... come on.

A little over the mid point of the days walk at a small village called Salceda, we stumbled across a funky little bar called Taberna Salceda. Walking into it was like going back to the early seventies, a bar with hanging beads, hippy slogans painted on the wall and good ole rock and roll blasting away. I half expected to see the patrons lighting up joints and talking in "hey man"s, but then all of them were pilgrims, and they likely had left their doobies back on the farm. Of course, being almost afternoon in the hot sun, a quick beer stop was in order. While sipping away outside we noticed a donkey tethered, fully loaded with pilgrims gear. It was obviously a staged scene as the guy walking it was not dressed like a pilgrim, far too clean and unweathered, and he was being followed around by a film crew. We would run into him a couple more times during the walk, and I had a few chuckles watching the guy dressed like a director chasing around an ass and filming it walking. Oh, just like Hollywood.

Nick, Judy, Mary Lou and I headed out from Salceda, leaving Tom and Maya to walk with the rest of their family. We would meet up at the end of the day in O Pedrouzo. Mary Lou and Judy were on fire and moved out ahead of the two men. Nick and I were straggling a bit, but after putting a little ground between us I connected with the girls in O Emplame about 4 km down the road. As my knee was hurting a bit  I decided to sit and wait for Nick before making the final 4 km push. About ten minutes later  I could hear screams of excitement, continuing and growing closer, and recognized the voices of Maya and Tom, and without even looking knew what it was. Will had caught us. The kids had never met Will before but got caught up in the excitement. It was indeed great to see him again, and meet Penny a New Zealander that had been his walking companion the past week or so. Beers were shared, thank you Will, as we got caught up, but unfortunately for the girls they would have to wait until Santiago to say hello. As had been their habit the past weeks, Will and Penny were staying outside of the main towns, so they would not connect with us tonight. Goodbye until tomorrow.

The final 4 km was mostly downhill on a path along the highway. Our reservations were at Porta de Santiago, a small hostel, with both dorms  and a few individual rooms which the Smith's and Valvo's gladly took them up on, allowing for some undisturbed sleep heading into the morning walk. The rest of the day was spent cleaning up and weeding through the back pack to get rid of anything not going home with us, further lightening the load carried.

 The four of us headed out for our final supper on the trail, and ran into Bruno, my guitar playing friend from the south of France. We invited him along to join us, and ended up having a wonderful evening, learning a little more about him. Bruno, whose English was better than our French by a bit,  had recently sold his insurance business, and was planning on spending the first three years of retirement travelling. First the Camino, next Nepal and from there TBD. By the end of the evening we agreed Toronto would be one of the stops, and Nick and Judy would come up to join us. One amusing exchange was between Mary Lou and Bruno, with ML trying to explain about Julia Child, who went to France to learn French cooking , then went back to the US to write a book about French cooking in English. Bruno ended the evening saying " It is ironic that people from France meet me on the trail, say hi then continue on, but you people have been inviting me to join you every time you see me". That my friend, is the Camino.








Thursday, October 17, 2013

Pics Tuesday 1 Oct




   The view as we passed outside Arzua.


    The day started out wet but improved as it went on.


    Not sure what it is with me and cats. I'm not a big fan, dog person all the way, yet whenever there are cats around they seem to gravitate to me. Gave the little guy some cheese.


    Judy, Maya and Mary Lou on a very pleasant section of the path.


    This place was right out of the 60's.


    Couldn't make up my mind at the pit stop, so got both for the road.


    Nick and I at the 20 km marker.


   Maya and Nick making good time.


    I could sit and stare at this for hours.


    A very fine evening with Judy, Nick, Bruno, me and May Lou. Santiago eve.

Them's The Breaks

Monday 30 Sept   Palas de Rei to Ribadiso      25.8 km

The excitement of the final few days continued to build, and the desire to finish the pilgramage with the Camino family that we had built over the past month was getting stronger. At 7am the Smiths, the Valvos, Cheryl and Nadine and three of the Dooley Heaths gathered for coffee at the Buen Camino before heading out on the morning walk. These people truly felt like family to me, or at least like friends I had known a lifetime. Nick and I would chat about this at the end of the day, how quickly one made connections on the walk and the warm feelings one had just from being around them.

And speaking of things I had become attached to, cafe con leche. For those of you not as fluent as me in Spanish, it means "coffee with milk". But it is way more than that. Back home I use coffee as an excuse to have a peanut butter cookie, which incidentally the best in Toronto are served at the Tango Palace on Queen Street East. Coffee on it's own, I can take it or leave it, and for me " I need a coffee" means, "I want a cookie". Other than that coffee is something to have when I'm bored or an excuse to take a break from a meeting. But cafe con leche, how did I ever survive without it. You take what I believe is expresso, add milk that is heated and frothed , sprinkle a little cinnamon on it and voila, you end up with a synergistic beverage that I am fairly certain is made sweeter by some kind of magic Camino incantation. When I get back home, gonna have to go see Val at Tango to find out if he knows how to do that. These things fill you up, provide an energy boost, create great conversation, help take your mind of blisters and for all I know increases fertility. Not that that is an issue at my age.

At first glance todays route is a fairly easy one dropping gently, ha ha, 230 m over the 26 km. But as I have stated before, the path always throws a few curves at you, with some  steep sections that do not show up on the guide book profiles. Doesn't matter though, by this point the Camino knows we have all figured out it is not there to stop us, but challenge self imposed limitations,  and there is nothing it can throw at us that will turn us back. Nothing. That is the biggest lesson of the entire journey, and I believe why this pilgrimage has endured for over a millennium. We are limited only by that which we believe limits us.

" I looked my demons in the eye laid bare my chest said do your best, destroy me"                             Ray LaMontagne  

Mary Lou and I had come to look forward to our walks with Maya and Tom. They both love to talk so every now and then you need a break, but they are two wonderful kids to have around, and they brought out the grand maternal and paternal instincts in both of us. Seven year old Maya spent much of the morning with us, and we had a blast using my walking sticks as batons, and showing her how to balance one in the air at the end of your finger ( a skill learned from my old junior hockey days).

Much of the path is through heavily forested areas that belies the fact that that it is following closely highway N-547. For the most part the walking was easy, the air was cool and time went by quickly. There were a few issues however. Because of the wet cool weather the past few days, there were many sections of the path that were quite slippery. Towards the bottom of the downhill run into Melide, I hooked up with my buddy Bruno and we were chatting as a lady walking in front of us slipped on the rocks and crashed heavily on her butt, having some difficulty getting up. We rushed down to help her, and after getting her on her feet she was insistent there was no problem. Though we both backed off, cause when you have been told to" leave me alone" you leave them alone, there is no way she got out of that unscarred  having watched just how hard she hit. That wouldn't be the last fall in this location today.

Melide has a population of around 8,000 and is a clean, prosperous modern city that has maintained much of its medieval charm and layout. It falls at about the halfway point of the days walk. As our group was approaching the outskirts, Catherine received a phone call informing her that two of her Australian friends had fallen on the same hill as the other woman, one fracturing her ankle and the other her wrist. In the spur of the moment Catherine, who remember was a nurse, decided to abandon the walk for the day to meet the two women at the hospital and help navigate through the Spanish medical system. A completely selfless action that put her Compostella at risk. Catherines only comment was " I'll worry about that later." A classy move by a classy woman. In the end, the leg was fractured in multiple places and pins had to be installed with no travel for five weeks, and the arm of the other was broken. Catherine and Maya headed out by taxi to the hospital, while Tom continued on the walk with us.

Again, with a distance of almost 26 km, the last few seem to take forever. The scale of the Brierly guide doesn't really allow one to gauge distance with any degree of accuracy, and it looked like we had actually walked by our stop for the day. The rain predicted for the day was just starting at this point. For a moment we contemplated backtracking, but instead decided to stop the truck coming down the road and ask for directions. Lo and behold it belonged to the Las Caminantes albergue, which just happened to be the place reserved for tonights stay. The driver said no problem its a little over a km down the road. And by a little over a km he meant +3 km, and all of us were exhausted by the time we arrived.

Ribadiso is a small little hamlet that dates back to the 6th century, and has been serving pilgrims pretty much since the start of it all. It has less than a dozen buildings, with a couple of albergues and one very fine restaurant. With a lot of afternoon naps going on  everyone was well rested when supper time hit. Our little group had grown to over twenty people, including Catherine who had taxied from the hospital to rejoin her family. Much to the chagrin of the young waiter, we arranged the tables into a "U" shape so we could be one big happy family. Young Tom felt I had been rude in ignoring the waiters pleas, but I explained to him sometimes people need a little coaxing to do the right thing. It was a very special evening, with our Camino family and some new friends. There were people from Spain, France, Israel, USA, England, Australia, Hungary, Ireland, Holland and Canada all chatting and laughing and eating and drinking, feeling good and enjoying each others company immensely.

Nick and I sitting in the corner perused the group and looked at each other with an understanding just how special the moment was. He whispered to me "this is what communion is", and I believe he was right. The night reminded me of one of our family dinners, where I would see my grandfather sit back silently watching his family interact, not saying a word, completely content to just be with his loved ones. I call that a quiet love. Nick and I started singing Amazing Grace and before long the entire table was belting it out in unison. Very special moment indeed.